fix: bad client destroy on servername change #13274

Job	Run time
dependency-review	12s
Lint	30s
Fuzzing	3m 33s
Test with Node.js 20 compiled --without-intl	5m 28s
Test TypeScript types	33s
Test with Node.js 21 compiled --without-intl	5m 22s
test (18, macos-latest) / Test with Node.js 18 on macos-latest	4m 30s
test (18, ubuntu-latest) / Test with Node.js 18 on ubuntu-latest	3m 39s
test (18, windows-latest) / Test with Node.js 18 on windows-latest	5m 57s
test (20, macos-latest) / Test with Node.js 20 on macos-latest	2m 25s
test (20, ubuntu-latest) / Test with Node.js 20 on ubuntu-latest	3m 40s
test (20, windows-latest) / Test with Node.js 20 on windows-latest	6m 5s
test (21, macos-latest) / Test with Node.js 21 on macos-latest	4m 12s
test (21, ubuntu-latest) / Test with Node.js 21 on ubuntu-latest	3m 26s
test (21, windows-latest) / Test with Node.js 21 on windows-latest	5m 37s
automerge	0s
	55m 9s

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