fix: bad client destroy on servername change #13273

Job	Run time
dependency-review	10s
Lint	33s
Test with Node.js 20 compiled --without-intl	5m 17s
Fuzzing	3m 27s
Test with Node.js 21 compiled --without-intl	5m 16s
Test TypeScript types	29s
test (18, macos-latest) / Test with Node.js 18 on macos-latest	4m 39s
test (18, ubuntu-latest) / Test with Node.js 18 on ubuntu-latest	3m 36s
test (18, windows-latest) / Test with Node.js 18 on windows-latest	5m 59s
test (20, macos-latest) / Test with Node.js 20 on macos-latest	7m 27s
test (20, ubuntu-latest) / Test with Node.js 20 on ubuntu-latest	3m 39s
test (20, windows-latest) / Test with Node.js 20 on windows-latest	6m 1s
test (21, macos-latest) / Test with Node.js 21 on macos-latest	4m 30s
test (21, ubuntu-latest) / Test with Node.js 21 on ubuntu-latest	3m 22s
test (21, windows-latest) / Test with Node.js 21 on windows-latest	5m 38s
automerge	0s
	1h 0m 3s

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