chore: switch to cargo dist for releases (#2085)

* chore: switch to cargo dist for releases

From https://axo.dev

cargo-dist handles building releases far better than we can, and do so
for several large projects now.

We will need to change our install script to use the cargo-dist
installer.

Historically, we have used the system package manager wherever possible.
Once switched to the new installer, this will no longer be the case. If
the user wishes to use their package manager, and Atuin is maintained
there, then they can choose to do so.

This way, we can ensure that users are running a known build, can easily
uninstall (just delete the atuin dir), easily update, etc. Builds will
use our lockfile, and can have their checksum verified. Later, I'd like
to introduce build signing.

As Axo are focused on release engineering, they will likely have
resolved many more issues than we have - libc versions, etc.

I'm not particularly happy with our response of "just use your package
manager", as many users seem to have difficulty there. It's unclear what
our installer has done, as this behaviour varies massively across
systems. It's also unclear how some package maintainers may have patched
things

I'm hoping that some better release tooling will lead to more confidence
in the process, and therefore more frequent releases.

Uninstall clarity: #111, #372, #640, #1485, #1546, #2049, #1529

* config

* add protobuf

* test build

* use native arm mac

* lol

* add toolchain

* use 1.78, 2vcpu

* nix flake update

* 1.77